It is almost time to
head home from Haiti. We are staying only a week this time due to the
constraints of limited vacation time to use and a son accompanying me
who has a summer job. Last night we went to visit a patient that I
met on my first visit to Haiti.
Anese
lost her L leg below the knee after the earthquake. She was 6 and a
half months pregnant at the time. After teaching her to walk with her
prosthesis she told me she was going to name her baby “Ann”. When
she had a son, I got a phone call asking me what to name him. I told
her to name him “something that means grace” since that is what
Ann means and she chose Isaac. I have been able to keep track of
Anese & Isaac through my Haitian friend Billy who looks in on
them for me and has helped to make arrangements for me so that I
could pay for some of the cost of Isaac’s preschool.
I hired a driver to
take my son Jesse, Billy and I to Anese’s home. For a couple of
years after the earthquake she was living in the tent that we managed
to find for her once she left the hospital after her amputation. We
drove up some very steep and rutted roads past wandering goats, pigs,
and chickens, people walking carrying loads on their heads, make
shift “stores” by the side of the road, and many curious
Haitian’s wondering about the car carrying a couple of white people
into their neighborhood.
After being bounced
around in the back seat for what seemed like a very long time after
getting lost twice, the car finally stopped. We got out near a large
red solid metal gate. On the other side of the gate we found a very
simple structure made of plywood. We knocked on the door and I was
immediately engulfed by a very big hug from Anese. She was smiling
from ear to ear.
Her home had been
upgraded from a tent by one of the many non-profit aid agencies still
present in Haiti. It was the size of a large living room in the US.
There is a single bare bulb hanging from the ceiling. There are no
kitchen or bathroom facilities. Anese lives here with her son,
Isaac, and her mother. She told me that her husband had left her. I
asked if she was working and if not how she spent her days. Since
Anese does not have any education and has a very visible disability,
I was not surprised to learn that she was not able to find work. She
said that she spends most of her days sitting. Isaac looks to be very
healthy, and they both seem to be eating well. I am assuming this is
due to one of the feeding programs run by an NGO or nongovernmental
organization.
Anese showed me all
of Isaac’s school pictures, report cards, and completed worksheets.
We gave Isaac a very bouncy ball that we had brought for him and I
gave Anese a little bit of money. I’m not sure how she is managing
to pay for his school. I did notice that his report card said that he
had missed many days of school. She told me through Billy that when
she was not able to pay for his tuition he was sent home.
I was really happy
to be able to see Anese and Isaac again, to see that they are both
healthy, to know that she has managed to survive despite all of the
challenges. I’m glad that she is no longer living in a tattered
tent. I was also sad. Sad that she has to struggle, that she is
unable to find work, that Isaac gets sent home from school.
I know that she has
not done anything to deserve such a hard life. I can’t help but
wonder why my life is so different from hers? What did I do to get so
lucky? I don’t have any answers. I can’t fix all that I see here
that needs fixing. I can only do the little bit that I can by sharing
my professional skills in Haiti, by helping my children to understand
that they too are very lucky, by helping to pay for some of the cost
of Isaac’s school and by being a friend to Anese and Isaac as best
I can from the US.